It’s all in the title, and that’s how I’ve been feeling lately. The actual meaning of the word unappreciated is “not fully understood, recognized, or valued”, and i mean how accurate is that? It’s crazy you know, how much you’re willing to do for people who probably wouldn’t even do half of that for you. You’d cross oceans for them but they wouldn’t even jump a puddle for you. But here’s the thing, not everyone has the same heart as you, I think that’s one of the hardest concepts to grasp, because i mean “treat people how you want to be treated” ?? And that never happens because people often just take it for granted and still treat you like shit.
Don’t get me wrong here, LOVE everyone unconditionally, but just watch out for the people who are only there when you’re doing good, and not through everything you go through. I HATE THIS FEELING AND I WISH I COULD STOP OTHER PEOPLE FROM HURTING JUST AS MUCH AS I WANT IT TO STOP FOR ME. You don’t deserve to be sitting and thinking about why you aren’t good enough for a person, when you’ve clearly given it your everything. It’s this feeling that makes you want to disappear , you look at yourself like you’re worthless, and you feel like a failure in everything you do. BUT THAT’S NOT TRUE, BECAUSE YOU ARE IMPORTANT AND BEAUTIFUL IN YOUR OWN WAY. “You are what you love not who loves you.” Some people may be blind to your perfections and see them as imperfections, but you aren’t here to prove anything to anyone but yourself. And a major key (DJ KHALEEEEEEED) is to love yourself by finding every flaw in yourself and learning to admire it, and accept it as who you are, that way you’ll never let anyone get to you, because f*ck what they think, you’re perfect.
“Life is too short to worry about stupid things. Have fun. Fall in love. Regret nothing and don’t let people bring you down.” I love this quote a lot, mainly because it’s literally what we should all be doing, living our best lives and not giving a shit about what people think. Honestly i’m so over people talking shit about me or telling me that i’m not good enough, because it’s bullshit and I always try my best.